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Men and Women as Friends - 7/24/2004 Do you think it's humanly possible to establish a friendship first with the opposite sex and progress to love and relationship? Is it healthy for both who are involved? What do you think are the pros and cons? 5 response(s), 1 vote |
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Problems in love affairs - 7/22/2004 I need assistance.I have a boyfriend / Lover, he is well behaving and he comes from a respected family.But this man is not a born again yet am a born again and I feel am in love with him.So what can I do ? Can I leave him or continue with him? I do not understand because I love my God.Please help me because he is not willing to become saved, he fears his family. 8 response(s), 0 votes |
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Are we on a downward slide? - 7/22/2004 Online dating is on the rise and it's great for those of us who have few other opportunities to meet people. But I'm a little worried. Are we approaching an era in which the meat market mentality is the norm? Are they going to begin charging more for the more highly prized members of our species? Is it soon going to be routine to hear "Is that your husband? How much did you pay for him? ... 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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Can Eunuchs enter into the kingdom of god. - 7/21/2004 As eunuchs are not in common gender.They themself get operated and try to be femenine. 5 response(s), 1 vote |
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Needing opinions on helping family and trying to date at the same time. - 7/20/2004 I need some opinions no my situation. My dad past a way a few years ago, leaving my mom with very little. My mother, who is self employed, has a limited amount of money, which mostly goes toward doctor visits and insurance. Because she is unable to afford to live on her own and I don’t have the money to help her get a place, she lives with me. Not to mention, she doesn’t ... 7 response(s), 0 votes |
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Who calls who? - 7/19/2004 I'm sure everyone has been in this predicament. You meet someone you like and he calls but not as often as you like and you don't want to call him and make yourself seem desperate or needy so you don't call. Is it okay men for a woman to call you? Does it make you want to run? Should a woman call a man more than he calls her? 4 response(s), 0 votes |
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Did I act to hastily? - 7/15/2004 Some months ago, I met a Christian man at another online service. We corresponded for a week and then suddenly he put me on hold (similar to blocking here at BC). He had been the first to contact me so I was stunned by this turn of events. In retrospect, there was nothing stunning about it. It had been very difficult getting him to respond to me the whole time. I considered my options. At ... 6 response(s), 0 votes |
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Church Wear? - 7/14/2004 My church changed pastors recently and he's a great Pritcher. but I do have one problem with him, he doesn't wear a tie and dress up. He says it will make young people want to come to church. However I was always taught that you wear your best to church, and if you don't have any better than that's fine God wants you as you are. My opinion though is that the pritcher should set an example ... 13 response(s), 3 votes |
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Let your women keep silent in church! What? - 7/14/2004 What are your thoughts about the following from 1 Cor. 14: 34-35? 34 "Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak;..." 35 "...for it is shameful for women to speak in church." 4 response(s), 0 votes |
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Are introverts capable of relationships? - 7/12/2004 The title pretty much sums it up! The reason I ask is because someone who is introverted is by definition, someone who lives inside of his/her own head and is inwardly focused. So can such a person be in a relationship, long-lasting, romantic, or otherwise? 3 response(s), 0 votes |
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God as a father? - 7/7/2004 I was listening to a sermon almost 2 months ago, and I was hit hard by something that was said. The speaker said that we should all consider God to be our heavenly father, and for those of us who couldn't think of Him as such due to our relationships with our earthly fathers, we should embrace that concept even more readily. I have had much trouble involving my earthly father, and for the ... 4 response(s), 0 votes |
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Which contact method works best here? - 7/1/2004 Here at BigChurch, we have these different ways to contact someone. You can send email, you can page someone on IMC, you can wink at them or you can ask them to join your Friend Network. Some seem to be dead end methods. I don't know how you respond to a wink, other than winking back, which I don't feel comfortable doing because I want to start out as friends first. And as for the Friend ... 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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Christian Youth Groups? - 6/30/2004 I am from the Czech Republic and am involved in our youth group organization. We have had some troubles having new people coming to our meetings or even church members coming to service. I came to visit my friends in the US and hoped I will get inspired and pleased by young people in the church here. But anywhere I came I saw just elder people in the church. My roots are in a traditional ... 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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in a dilema - 6/30/2004 I have a friend that has a medical condition, where the doctors have told her that she needs to have a baby in the next two years if she is ever going to have any at all. She is a Christian, not dating anyone, and really wants a bay that is part her. The doctors have told her she can be artificially inseminated if she wants to be. She is confused and not sure what to do. They have advised ... 8 response(s), 1 vote |
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Why do men lie about how tall they are? - 6/29/2004 I am a 5'6" woman and would like a relationship with a tall man but I am open to others too. I would at least like to look at a man in the eye. <br> Several of the men I have met had either said they were 5'10" or 5'6" when I met them they were 2 to 3" shorter than they said? Do they really think they are as tall as they say? <br> They are very sweet gentle men and ... 11 response(s), 0 votes |
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Is it possible to fall in love with a person in the internet ? - filipinaslim - 6/27/2004 My friend says that its not possible to fall in love with a person in the internet. That you have to get close to the person in real in order to fall for love. And he tells me that net people are not believable cause most of them are cheats and they only want fun, but I have known many people who did fell in love here in the net. I'm confused , I dont know what to believe now. Please help! ... 9 response(s), 3 votes |
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God told me. - 6/26/2004 I feel that people say too often that God told them to do something. I've seen peole say this and then the thing (marriage, ministry, job, etc)doesn't work out. What kind of testimony is that? I think Christians need to cut down (all the way down!) on their use of this statement. How do others feel about this issue? 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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Does anyone practice true Christianity anymore? - 6/25/2004 I just want to know if there are any true worshippers left. I see people and hear people talk about how they are living for the Lord, but yet and still they do not live by the word. Say for instance, there are some who say they smoke, drink, gamble and on some occasions live the "commn-law" marriage, swearing; and the so-called "born-again" homosexuals who still engage in homosexual acts ... 3 response(s), 0 votes |
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Should "All My " bond us?.... - 6/24/2004 I am and only , my Mom and Dad's only ... While growing up, my Dad was self employed; therefore, he kept me, got me ready for school, checked homework, taught me about the "runnings" of business, and so on and so forth, which developed a great relationship between he and I... By my Mom being career oriented, more of a "socialite", going to her meetings and clubs, and etc... she and I didn't ... 3 response(s), 0 votes |
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When someone doesn't reply what should yo do? - 6/18/2004 When you've exchanged messages with someone a few times and then at some point you write to them and they don't respond, what should you do? Should yo consider that encounter over? Or should you bug them for a response (which is kinda what I did with several guys, I hate to admit)? 11 response(s), 0 votes |
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What's Going on Here? - 6/17/2004 I've been a member of some large secular singles sites, but I joined BigChurch last week because it advertises "Bringing People Together in Love and Faith, " so I expected to find a lot of good-hearted single believers who love the Lord and want to experience genuine friendship or love with another Christian single person. <br> I was thoroughly enjoying my time here until I ... 10 response(s), 0 votes |
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Should physical appearance be important to Christians? - 6/16/2004 I'm very conflicted about Christians (myself included) wanting someone who fits this world's standards of beauty. Are we all just really shallow and spiritually immature? I have to say yes! If a wonderful, kind, gentle, godly person comes in what we consider an unattractive package, we reject him or her outright! Can anyone comment on this issue? Thanks! 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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HAS HOLY GHOST LEFT HIM!!! - 6/16/2004 i'm not sure if the HOLY SPIRIT has left my pastor, it seems as if what he does could not be easily associated with what God planned for the pastors or the people he calls to lead his people(the congregation). i want to know if i'm wrong in evalueting his prachings and always find them weak and wanting because several times i grasp what he is trying to say, always it sounds like a moral ... 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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How should online relationships be ended? - 6/14/2004 I've corresponded very briefly with three guys at another online dating service. They all stopped writing very abruptly with no goodbye. I think it's very unchristian. Just because you're online doesn't mean you're exempt from showing the kindness the bible commands us to show one another. How have online relationships ended for others in here? I appreciate any answers. Thanks! 2 response(s), 0 votes |
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Should I post a picture or not? - 6/9/2004 As a woman alone, I hesitate to post a picture of myself for a stranger I know nothing about to see and would like to get some feedback from those of you who have about the results you are getting and if you are satisfied or pleased with those results. 7 response(s), 0 votes |
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Love by Walt Disney - 6/7/2004 What is the deal with this "true love" business? I mean realy can we move beyond Walt Disney? Love is a comitment. True Love is a made up Hollywod ideal. It is also an excuse for too many divorces. "He just wasn't the right one for me." Don't get me wrong I believe in romance. I just believe it has more to do with passion and cooperation then "true love." 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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What is the first thing you notice about the opposite sex ? - 5/31/2004 Honestly, what is the first thing you notice about someone , Eyes, hair, etc.... what draws your attention ? 6 response(s), 0 votes |
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why is people,scared and selfish,and think about there only there selfs - 5/31/2004 I did a real stupid thing a week ago, I have just gotten a divorce, and thought I was ready for dating and that good stuff, any way I found out that I was a total wreck, I did not stop and think about what my actions could have led to.That person now has no respect for me and think's I AM A REAL NUT CASE, i got scared and couldn't control my emotions, just couldn't let go of my past ... 5 response(s), 1 vote |
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How is this..... - 5/30/2004 .....online meeting thing viewed these days? Sometimes I think it makes me look desperate. But I work and go to school, my church is small and there are very few wasy to meet christians with that scedule in Las Vegas. I have never had much contact with people on the few sites I have looked at. I don't think I am unattractive, though no trophy either. Just a hard working, sincere person ... 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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women and adultry - 5/28/2004 Why is it that women feel the need to cheat after 8 yrs of marriage? I've been married twice and it's happened twice. Around the same time frame too. It's really funny too because my brother and sister had it happen to them also. Am I just too trusting and gulliable, believe whatever you tell me. Greg 15 response(s), 1 vote |
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