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Childcarer 45 F
1  question
Why do we have to pay extra to communiate with standard members ? - 6/27/2009

Hi I am a Gold member. I was wondering why we have to pay extra money to communicate with standard members. We paid our fee to become a silver or Gold member already which I thought we could communicate with all members. It is a outrage that we have to pay extra to communicate with standard members to upgrade. It is a rip off. So if we are Gold or Silver members at the moment we can only ...

2 response(s), 4 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Christians and Guns - 6/24/2009

Is it right for a Christian to have a gun in their home?

4 response(s), 0 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Faith and Works - 6/24/2009

Faith and Works ‘By works a man is justified” James 2:24 “By the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified”Romans3:20

By works a man is justified, said James. By the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified in His sight, affirmed Paul. What appears to be a contradiction is seen to be harmony when the viewpoint of each writer is perceived. ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
If you can........ - 6/24/2009

If you can start the day without caffeine,

If you can always be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains,

If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles,

If you can eat the same food every day and be grateful for it,

If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time,

If you can take criticism and blame without ...

5 response(s), 6 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
fruitful - 6/22/2009

the bible said we must be fruitful what does fruitful meen to you.

1 response(s), 1 vote
Angelhart1953 68 F
24  questions
Mending broken Fences - 6/20/2009

Hi all, my question is, How can one mend broken fences when it does not pacifically but indirectly involve ones self. Since 04 I have been supporting a pastor's ministry with in India, as a prayer partner and now as their UK coordinator, who has along with his preaching has struggled with his wife against great odds to provide a safe haven for street with in the ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
archangel1954 68 M
17  questions
It's Not Too Good To Be True; But It Surely Is Too Good To Be Missed - 6/20/2009

This is an article by Keith Blades. Hope you enjoy it. -------------------------------------------





It's Not Too Good To Be True; But It Surely Is Too Good To Be Missed ------------------------------------------

Sometimes when people hear that God is offering to save them from the debt and penalty of their sins if they will simply trust in the Lord Jesus Christ ...

3 response(s), 8 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
"The morning star" - 6/18/2009

In Revelation 2:28 it says, "And I will give him the morning star." What does it mean?

2 response(s), 2 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Faith and Promise - 6/18/2009

Faith and Promise “He staggered not at the promise of God through unbelief”Romans4:20

Faith must have a divine warrant upon which to rest, and it finds this in the promise of God. A promise is an assurance given by one person to another that he will or will not do a certain thing. The validity of the promise depends on the character and resources of the one who makes it, ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Revelation chapters 2 and 3 - 6/14/2009

It refers to the "Nicolaitans" and their false teaching. What does it mean?

3 response(s), 2 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Faith and Tragedy - 6/14/2009

Faith and Tragedy “Although the fig tree shall not blossom...the flock shall be cut off from the fold...yet I will rejoice” Habakkuk 3:17-18

FAITH will not purchase for the Christian immunity from the sorrows and tragedies of life. It will, however, empower him to triumph in them. Scripture and experience unite to teach that tragedy strikes in the life of just and unjust ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Angelhart1953 68 F
24  questions
Hi all - 6/13/2009

Hi everyone, it has been some time since I have, posted anything. As I did become engaged, not might I add to any one from this sight. However sadly, it did not work out for us, so here I am back again. Regards all your sister in Christ Angel heart1953

0 response(s), 0 votes
santo82 33 M
1  question
People at big church - 5/28/2009

I am dissapointed with this dating site, I joined b/c I wanted to meet a christian women. I been observing differrent women on this site that have multiple profiles with differrent names, age, and locations. It seems like this is a only a joke and people are only playing games with each other.

5 response(s), 7 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Courage Is Born Of Heaven - 5/21/2009

“That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man.” Eph. 36.

Our age is one of "do it yourself." This slogan is emphasized in almost every phase of life. What used to belong to the expert or pro­fessional is now accomplished by the untrained. Many today have cour­age to tackle tasks that a ...

5 response(s), 3 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Why should I help the poor? - 5/19/2009

Oh, the joys of those who are kind to the poor. The Lord rescues them in times of trouble. The Lord protects them and keeps them alive. He gives them prosperity and rescues them from their enemies. The Lord nurses them when they are sick and eases their pain and discomfort. Psalm 41:1-3 NLT

He will rescue the poor when they cry to him, he will help the oppressed, who have no one to ...

4 response(s), 6 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Afterward Peace - 5/18/2009

“Now no chastening for the present seems to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless after it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.” Hebrews 12:11.

The chastening experience is common to the Christian. Often we cannot see beyond the dark clouds to the sun shining on the other side. A tragic experience came to the American ...

2 response(s), 6 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
KEEP THE CHANNEL CLEAR - 5/17/2009

“Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.“ James 4:8.

It is not uncommon for persons to wonder why God does not reveal Himself to them in a special way. I suppose that at one time or another we all have longed for such an experience. And probably the main obstruction to this ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Do Not Forget To Turn Your Security System On - 5/15/2009

A horrible thing happened to me today. A thief broke into my house. It happened shortly after I awoke this morning. I got up and began rushing about. I had a thousand things on my list and was already running behind. Quickly, I gulped down breakfast, took a shower and got ready for work. In my rush, I forgot to turn the security system on at my house. It was just about a half an hour later ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
YOU CAN BE STRONG INSIDE - 5/14/2009

“That He would grant you according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might by His spirit in the inner man.” Eph. 3:16.

Why is it that a mother will collapse in the middle of a day that has brought some annoyances and say, “I just can’t take anymore!”? It is because she lacks inner strength. There is a void in the world today ...

0 response(s), 4 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
The New Covenant - 5/14/2009

"How much more shall the blood f Christ, Who through the eternal Spirit offered Himself without spot to God, purge your conscience from dead works to serve the living God? And for this cause He is the Mediator of the NEW TESTAMENT, that by means of death, for the redemption of the transgressions that were under the first testament, they which are called might receive the promise of rternal ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
A Christian's Defense - 5/11/2009

Read Psalm 26:1-12. Have you ever been blamed for something you didn't do? Leaders often are blamed falsely. The Israelites blamed Moses for lack of water, bitter water, enemies' attacks and lack of food. In this psalm, David is falsely accused, so he takes four steps to deal with his slanderers.

Step 1: An honest examination (v. 1-3). Human nature does not want to admit it is wrong, ...

0 response(s), 5 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Comments on Ephesians Chapter 3 - 5/10/2009

Ephesians 3:1-6 1 for this reason I, Paul, the prisoner of Christ Jesus for the sake of you Gentiles- 2 Surely you have heard about the administration of God’s grace that was given to me for you, 3 that is, the mystery made known to me by revelation, as I have already written briefly. 4 In reading this, then, you will be able to understand my insight into the mystery of Christ, 5 which was ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
LET US HONOR OUR MOTHERS - 5/9/2009

“She watches over the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her.” Proverbs 31:27, 28.

“Mothers Day” is the one day of the year which we set aside to honor our mother in a special way. Someone has said that most of the beautiful things in the world come in ...

2 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Hypothetical Questions - 5/9/2009

Just finishing another class in school dealing with elementary statistics. One section is dealing with a term call correlation and in this analysis we have to come up with a test called an hypothesis test. This got me thinking more on a spiritual level and I have come up with two hypothetical questions:

1) If you were to die today, are you absolutely sure you would go to heaven? 2) If ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
mag414 75 F
27  questions
knowing God - 5/8/2009

What does knowing God meen for us.

3 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
THIS IS THE DAY - 5/7/2009

“This is the day the Lord has made; we will be glad and rejoice in it.” Ps.118:24.

Today, as far as time is concerned, is all we have. Yesterday is as completely beyond our reach as A.D. 1900 or 1900 B.C. We cannot go back; we cannot control the past. Commenting on man’s wistful look to the past, someone has said that men have been looking to the good old ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Our Spiritual Wealth - 5/7/2009

In the early 1900s, there was a woman named Hettie Green who was known for her miserly ways. So much so, that she was called America's greatest miser. But Hettie Green was worth a lot of money. When she died in 1916, she left an estate valued at $100 million. Still, Hettie Green lived as through she were poverty-stricken. She would eat cold oatmeal every day to save the expense of heating ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Revival - 5/7/2009

Revival (Part 1) Duncan Campbell described revival as ‘a community saturated with God.’ “Revival is a church word; it has to do with God’s people. You cannot revive the world; the world is dead in trespasses and sins; you cannot revive a corpse. But you can revitalize where there is life.” ‒ Douglas Brown 1922 Evan Roberts made the same claim in Wales in ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Divorce - 5/7/2009

I met a lady who was crushed when her husband divorced her. She couldn't forgive herself. But I told her that God does. We read 1 John 1:9 "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from ALL unrighteousness."

Our God is a God of mercy and grace. There is foregiveness through our Lord Jesus Christ. Praise be to God.

2 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
GRACE - 5/6/2009

Let us note them at the very beginning-‘grace’ and’ peace’. ’Grace be to you, and peace, from God our Father, and from the Lord Jesus Christ’ (Ephesians 1:2). No two words are more important in the whole of our faith than ’grace’ and’ peace’. Yet, how lightly we tend to drop them off our tongues without stopping to consider ...

3 response(s), 0 votes