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DeeMarie3 60 F
9  Articles
THE PROVERBS 31 WOMAN   1/16/2005

A PROVERBS 31 WOMAN is hard to find… IF it was difficult in Solomon’s time THEN how much so in the 21st Century where common values and decency are far from God’s ideal? <br> “An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels.” [verse 10] <br> This verse sums up the position many men face when seeking a wife: · Her ...


1 Comments, 186 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
DeeMarie3 60 F
9  Articles
The Role of a Woman   1/15/2005

Pillars & Foundations <br> The ROLE of a woman within a relationship and family is vital to the stability of its structure. How many women today truly understand or even value their role? <br> King David describes his daughters this way in Psalms 144:12: <br> “… and our daughters will be like pillars carved to adorn a palace;” [NIV] ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
Randombird 50 F
17  Articles
Building God's way...   1/13/2005

The Wise and Foolish Builders <br> Matthew 7:24-27 <br> Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. <br> The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. <br> ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Angela4447 49 F
5  Articles
COUNTING BLESSINGS   1/13/2005

I AM TRULY BLESSED AND AMAZED AND THAT IS ALL BECAUSE OF YOU GOD. I FEEL UPSET, ANGER, BITTER, SAD, LONELY, JEALOUS. WHAT IS IT YOU DO YOU HAVE THESE WONDERFUL ANGEL LIKE CHILDEN WITH THERE SMILE AND BRIGHT EYES SAY I LOVE YOU. WOW IT MAKES MY HEART SOAR LIKE A EAGLE. THE TINY HAND WNTING TO HOLD MINE THE BIG HUGE SMILE YOU HAVE TRULY BLESSED ME AND MADE SO MANY BLESSING I KNOW THAT ONE IS ...


1 Comments, 95 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
Everlasting Love.   1/12/2005

Gather round l'il , come see what God has done. Behold the world is free; good news for everyone. <br> There is a price upon your head, t'is all ye e'er see. Wilst thou bow a humble moment, e'er to be free? <br> T'is pride that binds thy troubled souls to selfish mockery. O cast thy bondage unto Him, and He shall set you free! <br> Our Fathers ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
manwiththepan 72 M
1  Article
Tid Bits - Living Vicariously!   1/12/2005

Tid Bits - Living Vicariously <br> It is amazing, the richness in diversity of the paths people choose to follow in their lives! Ambitions and dreams we have sought after have shaped our very lives, and give each one of us such a unique story! I love listening to the stories others tell of their experiences, and how in God’s leading, their experiences (both good and ...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
Mysterious Rhyme   1/8/2005

The fruit of Gods labor is always on time, preciously planted deep in this rhyme. <br> The harvest is ripe and the laborers few. It's time to collect the fruit that is due. <br> We are the wheat the farmer must bear At the heavenly banquet for justice is there. <br> As the Sow'er of seed is finally revealed The reaper collects souls to be sealed. ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
EMPYS 48 F
10  Articles
I kissed dating goodbye!   12/30/2004

I haven't read "I kissed dating goodbye" by Joshua Harris but I pretty much know what it is about, and I agree with it. I don't believe in dating as the secular world sees it. In order to maintain purity Christians need to keep the boundaries clear. You shouldn't get involved with someone physically at all until you both have discovered that you are totally compatible with one another and ...


3 Comments, 154 Views, 23 Votes ,3.71 Score
finallysetfree 64 F
2  Articles
Work, Work, Work!!!   12/12/2004

Always, when starting a relationship there is a time period when things are awkward. If one of the two people has recently gotten out of a relationship, that person may have some fresh wounds that are still healing and may have a wall of protection that is built up. With God, all things are possible and so that wall will come down and complete healing will take place. Then the two will ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 24 Votes ,4.95 Score
Good Morning!   12/6/2004

He spoke to firmament yielding lights Dividing this day from the first night. Saying let these signs be for the seasons. We count days and years for this reason. <br> The earth is enlighten'd from His Love Receiving the light from heaven above. <br> He then gave us a gift of two great lights. The bigger lites day; the smaller lites night. <br> He made ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Reach for the stars.   12/4/2004

We scatter words on a paper text. Adding punctuation rhythm is next. <br> This metric precision lets everyone see. Our expressed composition called poetry. <br> But is the effort in vain with nothing to show? What's the reason we share, doesn't anyone know? <br> The time we have been given to care is all ours. We can make our own hell or reach for the stars.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Ginasmom 70 F
1  Article
Work At Your Relationship   12/2/2004

I think most of you will agree that each relationship takes work. Just as you work on your job to keep the paycheck coming in, your car to keep it clean and running, your checkbook to pay the bills, so you must work at keeping the relationship healthy and happy. All of us are on this on-line dating for a specific reason; mine is to find a healthy relationship with someone who wants to go ...


0 Comments, 122 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
ALock 57 F
3  Articles
Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived   11/27/2004

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; happiness, sadness, knowledge, and all the others, including love. One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean.
So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love stayed. she wanted to preserve the island paradise until the last possible ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 16 Votes ,5.92 Score
Virtuousrose 64 F
1  Article
when do you know a mans truly loves you!   11/19/2004

When can you know a man truly loves you and wants you for who you are? or what you may have? when is it safe to trust thoses words I LOVE YOU!


1 Comments, 55 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
KeePHope 69 M
1  Article
God's Design for Relationships   11/18/2004

Every person in the world wants the same thing - a close, intimate, personal relationship with another person. Many try, sometimes over and over again, but the relationships never seem to satisfy them. So, does God have anything to say about relationships? Does He have anything to say that might be relevant to us today? The short answer is a resounding YES! Let’s start at the ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 13 Votes ,6.33 Score
Make Believe.com   11/18/2004

This is not about everybody or for every body, but I read some pretty real concerns and thought I'd share this. Of course no one on this site would do these things, but hey it's Make Believe.
MAKE BELIEVE.com?
We're living in a land of make believe and trying not to let it show. We plant illusions subtle seeds and share the fantasies they grow.
In this place ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
What is the deal with men on this site????? :(   11/11/2004

Forgive me if you are offended by my post, but what on earth is the deal?
Men will wink at you, put you on your hot list, even add you to your favorites, all without even communicating with you any other times.
Is this just some sort of ego gratification thing going on here?
I am about ready to ax my membership because quite honestly, I am tired of these ...


5 Comments, 143 Views, 28 Votes ,5.81 Score
warren35 55 F
1  Article
Why Do This Process Have To Be So Hard?   11/11/2004

I've never had problems with meeting men; however I do have problems when it comes to trying to estblishing a Christ centered relationship. I have never been in a relationship where we both were equally yoked. I have the atittude of wanting to fix people. I now know I can not fix anyone, that job is the Lord's. I know that's why I have not had a sucessful relationship.
I know ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 19 Votes ,4.97 Score
peadar 68 M
1  Article
who am I   10/24/2004

Jesus challenged me when he said a new commandment I give to you. Love your neighbour as yourself. This set me out on a journey how do I love myself , if I dont know that how, can I love my neighbour . I asked god how do I love myself without been cocky and full of pride. The very clear answer he gave me was, first I have to get to know myself [the me without the baggage and garbage of life]...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
NOT GOOD ENOUGH !!!   9/30/2004

WHY DO SOME PEOPLE NEVER SEEM TO BE SATIFIED WITH THE MATE THEY CHOOSE? THEY FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM JUST THE WAY THEY ARE AND THEN TRY TO CHANGE THEM. AND THEN THEY ARE NEVER SATIFIED WITH THE RESULTS OF THE CHANGES. IT'S NEVER ENOUGH NO MATTER WHAT THEY DO. WHEN YOU FALL IN LOVE ACCEPT THE ONE YOU LOVE JUST THEY WAY THEY ARE. IF YOU TRY TO CHANGE THEM, YOU WILL LOSE THE PERSON THEY ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
Seniorfriend4U 77 M
3  Articles
A 2 time losers advice on (LOVE) -n-Life   9/27/2004

----------------------------------------------------- NOW HERE'S SOME SERIOUS SPIRT INSPIRED STUFF: MANY FOLKS IN THE BIGCHURCH HAVE SUFFERED WITH BAD MARRIAGES (myself included)...SO HERe ARE A FEW OF MY OPINIONS ON THIS-THAT AND my seniorfriend4U advice on WHAT LOVE CAN DO 4U... <br> ............................................... SIMPLY REALLY LOVE–HER OR HIM DO ...


2 Comments, 46 Views, 20 Votes ,5.81 Score
tenderfire 71 F
1  Article
The Blended Family   9/13/2004

The Blended Family 1. What is a Blended Family? 2. CAN it Thrive and Survive? 3. WHAT HAVE YOU INHERITED? <br> With the divorce rate, being as it is today the term Blended Family best describes the dynamics of some modern day families. These Blended Families may comprise of one or more and other blood relationship, which are inherent with a new relationship, a new marriage, ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Edrie 57 M
1  Article
Relationships will only survive with comunication.   9/5/2004

Hello everyone, I hope the Lord has blessed you on this joyous day. We all seek the perfect relationship, whether it is with GOD or our girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband or friend. But what is the one key to succeeding this goal? Some may say it is forgiveness. Others may say it is trust. Still others may say it is honesty. I could go on for a while but I believe to have any of these you ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 19 Votes ,6.82 Score
I Met My Husband At BIGCHURCH.COM   9/4/2004

In 2000, I met my future husband in the chatroom of Bigchurch. At the time, I didn't know he would be my future husband. As time went on, we corresponded through emails and phone calls. Fatman66 came to Canada to meet Rosie in 2001. We fell in love. We continued a 3, 000 mile relationship until August 2, 2003. We got married in British Columbia. After the wedding, I left Canada to move to ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 21 Votes ,6.96 Score
salvationseeker 60 F
3  Articles
How do we know which person to choose.......   9/3/2004

If we find someone on this site that fascinates us and we have a few other potentials, do we just limit ourselves to the "one" that seems spiritually right? Or do we kind of "play" the field and get to know each person. I am finding myself confused over what to do. I have two people that I find very interesting, but one has really got my attention. I have never met either, only talked on ...


1 Comments, 55 Views, 16 Votes ,4.45 Score
What to look for in a spouse   8/21/2004

What to look for in a potential partner.... <br> I recently came across this list of 1-21, and thought it might be nice to share it, and useful to add other things found in the Bible pertaining to qualities that we can look for in a prospective spouse.. .. <br> The Qualities of a Godly Husband - Proverbs <br> 1. A wise husband is kind and compassionate ...


3 Comments, 59 Views, 53 Votes ,9.03 Score
jadeite103 46 F
4  Articles
A soulful relationship   8/14/2004

below is an article pass from one person to another and came to my hand today...and i like to share it with everyone here at bigchurch... <br> If you're not married yet, share this with a friend. If you are married, share it with your spouse or other married couples and reflect on it. <br> <br> An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both ...


2 Comments, 41 Views, 18 Votes ,7.22 Score
crayzie08 44 F
1  Article
Lover of your soul   8/12/2004

I was driving the other day and a song came on the radio, it was a love song. All of a sudden as sometimes can happen when you find yourself alone, you begin to get depressed and think of what you are missing. You begin to think about all the love stories ever told over the years and how wonderful they made you feel in hopes of finding that one person who would fight for you, be by your ...


5 Comments, 91 Views, 214 Votes ,9.15 Score
"When will start a real Life"   8/6/2004

In my opinion the real life will start..presently we are living on the face of the earth. one day we have to leave this world( we con't like to leave this world, because man will thinking today itis the permanent place, it is so pleasant to our life, very attractive, nothing to be worry, we can survive forever). But we have finish our life on the earth one day, if we believe on the Lord ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 18 Votes ,5.03 Score
ddmministry 60 F
13  Articles
Forgive me...I NEVER KNEW HOW TO...   7/28/2004

PLEASE CAN YOU FIND IT IN YOUR HEART TO: "Forgive Me...I NEVER KNEW HOW TO" <br> My Mind...NEVER KNEW HOW TO forget all the hurt that I'd been through. My Eyes...NEVER KNEW HOW TO see..that all men are not alike. My Mouth..NEVER KNEW HOW TO speak all the things that my heart wanted to say. My Heart..NEVER KNEW HOW TO allow anyone to love it...so a lot of people ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 24 Votes ,6.31 Score